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发表于 2024-1-17 09:10:58
年终奖发了一万，买一个五千的包过分吗？男朋友和我大吵一架，觉得应该留着买房
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兰可
发表于 2024-1-17 09:15:05
自己的钱爱怎么花怎么花
真心无悔
发表于 2024-1-17 09:17:54
应该把一万都买成包，毕竟包治百病
竹的心
发表于 2024-1-17 09:22:05
刚开始还想批评你，后面看到他买几千的皮带就算了:lol
A江哥
发表于 2024-1-17 09:28:24
好好的
@义乌同年哥
发表于 2024-1-17 09:37:34
早上好
任老师
发表于 2024-1-17 09:41:02
买房
坐在坟头调戏鬼
发表于 2024-1-17 09:42:06
败家娘们
陌上彩虹
发表于 2024-1-17 09:47:01
男孩是个会过日子的人，女孩也沒错，只是应了那句：贫贱夫妻百事哀！
叶落无声26
发表于 2024-1-17 09:47:20
这男朋友的语气啊脾气你们能一起呆这么多年不错了，他那么说感觉你全程都没生气发火。是个蛮好的女朋友。不过从生活角度来说，目前能省点是点，结婚买房养孩子真的很费钱，没点积蓄累的。当然以后的事谁也说不清楚，或许工资涨幅不大又或者机遇来了不愁钱