小学生偷偷干这事？爸妈慌了！不少义乌家长正发愁……
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pics-app.cnyw.net/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; color: #222222; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); background-color: #ffffff; visibility: visible;"><section style="outline: 0px; visibility: visible;"><p class="empty_paragraph" style="outline: 0px; visibility: visible;"> </p></section><section style="outline: 0px; visibility: visible;"><section style="margin: 10px auto; outline: 0px; visibility: visible;"><section style="outline: 0px; height: 2px; background-color: #07aefc; flex: 1 1 0%; overflow: hidden; visibility: visible; 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margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; color: #3e3e3e; font-family: PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: #ffffff; visibility: visible; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.034em; visibility: visible; font-size: 16px;">“吃年夜饭，刷手机”“看春晚，刷手机”“走亲戚，和亲戚孩子一起刷手机”……最近，不少家长发现，过年的每次聚会，家里娃和手机简直成了连体，孩子手机都玩到烫了。</span></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; color: #3e3e3e; font-family: PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: #ffffff; visibility: visible; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.034em; visibility: visible; font-size: 16px;"> </span></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; color: #3e3e3e; font-family: PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: #ffffff; visibility: visible;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible;">一方面看着孩子玩手机心烦，一方面大过年的，总得让孩子在家族群里抢个红包跟亲人拜个年啥的，又不能不给手机，家长们实在是不知道该怎么管了：<span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible;">“</span></span><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa; visibility: visible;">在单位处理那么多复杂的工作都没这么难，在家管一个娃和一件电子产品怎么这么难！</span></strong><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible;">”</span></span></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible;"> </span></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible; line-height: 1.5em;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 10px auto; outline: 0px; display: flex; justify-content: center; visibility: visible;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; display: flex; visibility: visible;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; flex-shrink: 0; z-index: 9; visibility: visible;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; width: 20px; visibility: visible;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; display: block; width: 20px !important; visibility: visible !important;" src="https://pics-app.cnyw.net/Fv9YKn9PePrRgX4t2HYyApICe_D6" /></section></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 5px; margin-left: -14px; outline: 0px; visibility: visible;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; padding: 4px 25px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; background-color: #1960cc; color: #ffffff; visibility: visible;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible;">家族三十人大聚会</strong></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; padding: 4px 25px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; background-color: #1960cc; color: #ffffff; visibility: visible;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible;">孩子们人手一个手机低头玩</strong></p><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 2px; outline: 0px; width: 220px; height: 3px; background-color: #dbecff; visibility: visible;"></section></section></section></section></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible;"> </span></section><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-size: 16px;">最近，为了完成家族五年一次的大聚会，黄女士和远在四面八方的亲戚相约赶回老家。大家订了一个三十多人的大包厢，想着多年没见，大人们聚聚，多年没见的孩子们也互相认识认识，培养下感情。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: var(--weui-fg-1); visibility: visible;"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible; color: #000000;">可是，从坐下等上菜开始，</span><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa; visibility: visible;">大人聊得热闹，十多个大孩子可是全程零交流，每个孩子人手一个手机，都低头在玩。</span></strong><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible; color: #000000;">黄女士几次提议女儿放下手机，跟表哥表姐们一起聊聊天，女儿都是应付着抬了一会儿头，不耐烦地说“好的好的”，过没多久，又低下了头。</span></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible; color: #000000; font-size: 16px;"> </span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; visibility: visible; color: #000000; font-size: 16px;">黄女士过去转了一下，看了看孩子们的手机屏幕，男孩子开着游戏的多，也有人在看游戏直播，女孩子看短视频和综艺的多。</span></p></section></section></blockquote><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"> </span></section><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px;">有个亲戚把家里**的手机没收过来，说让他必须帮着管一岁多的妹妹，管十五分钟才能玩五分钟手机。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: var(--weui-fg-1);"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000;">可没想到才一岁多的妹妹也跟哥哥一起嚷着要看手机，因为还不会说长句子，</span><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;">小妹妹跟妈妈一边喊着“机机机”，一边用食指做出上划屏幕的姿势</span></strong><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000;">，看得一众大人都笑了，这可是标准的看短视频的姿势哈。</span></span></p></section></blockquote><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.5em;"></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 10px auto; outline: 0px; display: flex; justify-content: center;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; display: flex;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; flex-shrink: 0; z-index: 9;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; width: 20px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; display: block; width: 20px !important; visibility: visible !important;" src="https://pics-app.cnyw.net/Fv9YKn9PePrRgX4t2HYyApICe_D6" /></section></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 5px; margin-left: -14px; outline: 0px;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; padding: 4px 25px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; background-color: #1960cc; color: #ffffff;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">女儿一上午上五次厕所</strong></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; padding: 4px 25px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; background-color: #1960cc; color: #ffffff;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">原来在用iPad看综艺</strong></p><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 2px; outline: 0px; width: 215.45px; height: 3px; background-color: #dbecff;"></section></section></section></section></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"></section><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px;">除了家庭聚会，寒假的作业打卡和网课任务，也让不少家长觉得很难管好电子产品。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">小学六年级女生小王的妈妈说，</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.034em;">从一年级到五年级，女儿都很乖，</span></strong></span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.034em;">每次要用iPad，都是学校要求打卡或者她要上去看看英语原版视频，用完马上就会还回来。</span></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: var(--weui-fg-1);"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000; font-size: 16px;">可这个寒假开始，女儿跟外婆在家，老是写一会儿寒假作业就说要上厕所，拿着iPad进去，一上就是好久，然后告诉外婆她上不出来。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">最近一个上午，她上了五次厕所，每次都15分钟以上。</strong></span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000;">外婆担心地给小王妈妈打来电话，让她带女儿去医院看看，是不是存在便秘的问题。</span></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000;">小王妈妈准备带她上医院时，小王有点害怕的样子，怎么都不肯去。</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">实在没办法了，只好讲出实情——反复上厕所是在偷看视频网站上的综艺节目。</strong></span></span></p></section></section></blockquote><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">小王妈妈气坏了，狠狠地批了她一顿。最终</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.034em;">女儿跟她做了保证，以后再也不做这样的事情了。</span></span></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 10px auto; outline: 0px; display: flex; justify-content: center;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; display: flex;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; flex-shrink: 0; z-index: 9;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; width: 20px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; display: block; width: 20px !important; visibility: visible !important;" src="https://pics-app.cnyw.net/Fv9YKn9PePrRgX4t2HYyApICe_D6" /></section></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 5px; margin-left: -14px; outline: 0px;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; padding: 4px 25px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; background-color: #1960cc; color: #ffffff;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">老公车上让女儿看短视频</strong></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; padding: 4px 25px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; background-color: #1960cc; color: #ffffff;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">老婆知道了大发雷霆</strong></p><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 2px; outline: 0px; width: 231.985px; height: 3px; background-color: #dbecff;"></section></section></section></section></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"></section><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">说起对手机的管理，读小学三年级的小李同学的妈妈更是气不打一处来。她说，小李最近放寒假在家，她好几次发现，</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">女儿写作业时，明明说用iPad查题目，其实偷偷在刷短视频。</strong></span></span></p><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"></section><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: var(--weui-fg-1);"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000;">女儿怎么对短视频这么感兴趣呢？她平时上学也没有机会刷短视频。小李妈妈开始想方设法寻找原因。有一天，女儿说漏了嘴，提起</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">早上爸爸送她上学时，会把手机给自己玩一路</strong></span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000;">的事情。</span></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000; font-size: 16px;">小李妈妈觉得这样下去怎么能行，她有个同事的女儿，以前都是年级前三名的，刚刚过去的这个学期，成绩退步了几十名，一开始老师家长还找不到原因，后来发现她每天都用大人的手机至少看20分钟短视频。</span></p></section></section></blockquote><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px;">“视频看多了，给出的刺激那么强，孩子看书就没那么专注了。”她跟老公大吵了一架，然后马上把家里的路由器换掉了。</span></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">新换的路由器，有不少功能。可以选择儿童关爱模式，控制孩子使用APP的范围和时长。另外，还有</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">一键断网功能，孩子什么时候能上网什么时候不能上，控制起来很方便。</strong></span></span></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; width: 676.996px !important; visibility: visible !important;" src="https://pics-app.cnyw.net/FjtOGmIz4su0w3IXzujZjfvMzzXX" /></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"></section><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: var(--weui-fg-1);"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000; font-size: 16px;">有了这个路由器，管理女儿使用电子产品的确方便许多。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000;">不过，小李妈妈最近又发现，</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">女儿会用家里的智能电视机点播短视频。</strong></span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000;">她一气之下，中止了电视机点播的会员权益。</span></span></p></section></section></blockquote><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"> </p><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 10px auto; outline: 0px; display: flex; justify-content: center;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; display: flex;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; flex-shrink: 0; z-index: 9;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; width: 20px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; display: block; width: 20px !important; visibility: visible !important;" src="https://pics-app.cnyw.net/Fv9YKn9PePrRgX4t2HYyApICe_D6" /></section></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 5px; margin-left: -14px; outline: 0px;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; padding: 4px 25px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; background-color: #1960cc; color: #ffffff;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">有妈妈设置积分奖惩机制</strong></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; padding: 4px 25px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; background-color: #1960cc; color: #ffffff;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">用积分兑换电子产品使用时长</strong></p><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 2px; outline: 0px; width: 265.077px; height: 3px; background-color: #dbecff;"></section></section></section></section></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"></section><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; caret-color: red; font-size: 16px;">听多了身边妈妈们管不住家里娃使用电子产品的事情，小学五年级男生小张的妈妈未雨绸缪，很早就开始想办法了。</span></p></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; color: #3e3e3e; font-family: PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: #ffffff;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">她感觉</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">现代社会完全禁绝电子产品不太可能，不如让孩子有节制地使用，控制使用的时长。</strong></span></span></p><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"></section><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: var(--weui-fg-1);"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000;">她想到了之前在购物网站上看到的积分卡，决定采购一批来，给小张设置一个奖惩机制。</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">考试在95分以上，多一分就可以得到一张积分卡，一张积分卡可以兑换十分钟的使用电子产品时间。</strong></span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000;">如果考到100分，除了可以按常规拿到5张积分卡外，再额外奖励五张。</span></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify;"> </p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000;">另外，平时的作业特别好或者做家务劳动特别棒，也会有相应的积分卡奖励。<span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; caret-color: red;">当然，表现差了也会扣除积分卡。</span></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify;"> </p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; caret-color: red; color: #000000;">这个学期，小张表现特别棒，</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; caret-color: red; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">积分卡加起来有100多张，也就是说电子产品使用时长可以有1000分钟。</strong></span></span></p></section></section></blockquote><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify;"></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px;">放假了，小张妈妈会让他自由决定什么时候使用多久电子产品，用积分卡来兑换。</span></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify;"></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">她说，寒假开始几天，</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">小家伙会很有计划地使用，怕一下子使用过多，后面就没有时长了。</strong></span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">有时候，能看到他把积分卡摆起来，统筹计划好半天。</span></span></section></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; color: #3e3e3e; font-family: PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: #ffffff;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 10px auto; outline: 0px; display: flex; justify-content: center;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; display: flex;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; flex-shrink: 0; z-index: 9;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; width: 20px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; display: block; width: 20px !important; visibility: visible !important;" src="https://pics-app.cnyw.net/Fv9YKn9PePrRgX4t2HYyApICe_D6" /></section></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 5px; margin-left: -14px; outline: 0px;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; padding: 4px 25px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; background-color: #1960cc; color: #ffffff;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">有家长让孩子签协议</strong></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; padding: 4px 25px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; background-color: #1960cc; color: #ffffff;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">自己决定使用规则</strong></p><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 2px; outline: 0px; width: 198.904px; height: 3px; background-color: #dbecff;"></section></section></section></section></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"></section><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: var(--weui-fg-1);"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000;">寒假开始前，初二男生小赵的妈妈就已经开始思考管理电子产品的对策了。因为</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">前面一个暑假，她和小赵因为电子产品吵了无数次架</strong></span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000;">，严重时甚至两个人各拉着iPad抢得不可开交，“感觉母子关系都要决裂了。”</span></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000;">她记得那段时间，小赵经常锁门玩手机，然后作业都来不及写，</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">开学前几天，<span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; caret-color: #ff0000;">她半夜起床看到小赵房间里亮着灯，小赵在</span>熬夜赶作业。</strong></span></span></p></section></section></blockquote><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px;"> </span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px;">这个寒假，她早早就跟小赵商量，电子产品可以玩，但要有规则，两个人最好拟定一份协议。小赵也觉得自己暑假有点过分，他拟了几条规则，然后和妈妈<span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; caret-color: red;">讨论，两个人最终确定了以下条款：</span></span></p><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; caret-color: red;"> </span></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; padding: 5px; outline: 0px; background-color: #ffcf6c; border-radius: 10px;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; width: 666.996px; border-radius: 10px; overflow: hidden;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; display: block; width: 638.991px !important; visibility: visible !important;" src="https://pics-app.cnyw.net/FufQxYfgFTVDxJfmq8PrI0fAchvd" /></section></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: var(--weui-fg-1);"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000; font-size: 16px;">1）每早八点交手机给小赵。小赵写完所有作业、再预习两小时，做完两项家务后才能使用。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000; font-size: 16px;">2）晚上十一点半之前小赵交回手机。<br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000; font-size: 16px;">3）当日作业没写完则一周不能用手机。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000; font-size: 16px;">4）锁门则永久停用。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #000000; font-size: 16px;">5）房间要保持干净整洁。</span></p></section></section></blockquote><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"></section></section></section></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px;">因为是自己定的规则，小赵至今遵守得很好，还没有发生过作业没完成以及锁门玩手机的事情，小赵妈妈终于安心了。</span></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 10px auto; outline: 0px; display: flex; justify-content: center;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; display: flex;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; flex-shrink: 0; z-index: 9;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; width: 20px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; display: block; width: 20px !important; visibility: visible !important;" src="https://pics-app.cnyw.net/Fv9YKn9PePrRgX4t2HYyApICe_D6" /></section></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 5px; margin-left: -14px; outline: 0px;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; padding: 4px 25px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; background-color: #1960cc; color: #ffffff;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">心理老师建议</strong></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; padding: 4px 25px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; background-color: #1960cc; color: #ffffff;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">用下面的方法让孩子减少依赖</strong></p><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-top: 2px; outline: 0px; width: 265.077px; height: 3px; background-color: #dbecff;"></section></section></section></section></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"></section><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">对这几位家长管理电子产品的做法，杭州一所初中的心理老师挺赞同的，建议</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">处理这样的问题不要简单粗暴，还是要尊重孩子。</strong></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify;"> </p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">她针对电子产品的控制使用以及如何让孩子减少依赖，给出了下列建议：</span></p><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"></section><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: var(--weui-fg-1);"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px;">小步子改进法。</span></strong></span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; color: #000000;">比如每天减少20分钟玩电子产品的时间，慢慢脱离对电子产品的依赖，而不是一刀切地禁止使用。</span></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px;">积极替代法。</span></strong></span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; color: #000000;">孩子离开了电子产品之后，家长要帮助孩子合理安排活动，建立现实沟通的联结，从而慢慢取代与网络虚拟世界的联结。家长也要作出表率，放下手机，多陪伴孩子。</span></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px;">把定规则的主动权交给孩子。</span></strong></span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; color: #000000;">家长可以先做提醒，但要注意，只描述看到的事实，比如“今天你从几点到几点使用了手机”，表达自己的担心。而不是带有感情色彩地批评：“你怎么今天玩了那么长时间，不知道做寒假作业吗？”对电子产品的使用规则，可以多听听孩子的想法，把主动权放到孩子手里，也意味着把责任也交给了他。</span></section></section></blockquote></section></section></section></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; line-height: 1.75em; margin-top: 24px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">你怎么看？<br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;" /></strong></span></section><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; color: #007aaa;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px;">你家有什么好方法？</strong></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; 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letter-spacing: 0.54px;">浙中教育、橙柿互动·都市快报、宁波晚报</span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); line-height: 1.5em; visibility: visible;"> </p><p style="display: none;"> </p> <!----></div> 抬头看星星，低头掌乾坤。 手机，不只是方便，更是毒害小孩的电子鸦片。 这个心，那个里综合体，
重复建设悔时迟。 这样看手机，迟早近视眼。 唉，头疼的事 路过 路过看看 普遍都如此 :(:):victory: